I’ve experienced a whirlwind of emotions but in all of it, I am glad that I am taking my time to unlearn and relearn and I will be sharing some thoughts.
Personally, my journey has been hindered by limiting beliefs. I once scorned the idea of starting small and shunned ventures that seemed beneath me. I also had a disdain for what we call stinking riches. I remember telling friends that I don’t want the type of Dangote, Otedola, Terry Waya and the likes kind of money, ‘I am not asking for much,’ is what I would say, having a comfortable life with my family in my own house, a good car and small funds to take care of whatever emergencies is okay for me. This aversion to wealth led me to distance myself from successful friends and individuals once they climbed the ladder, fearing their perceived arrogance and the potential shame of inadequacy.
However, in my coaching sessions, my SEC coach literally walked through my head, mind and soul, if it was a church service, I fell under her anointing. I am transforming of some of these limiting beliefs that I embrace dearly, I am slowly liberating myself from these mental constraints. I have come to understand that there are thoughts and patterns that holds us back to realizing our goals and these thoughts and patterns are formed through: Upbringing and early beliefs in life, Education and learning, Personal experiences, Society norms, Media Influence, Cognitive biases, personal reflection and critical thinking.
The above could have either been in your control or not but recognizing and challenging these patterns is crucial for personal growth. Bob Proctor said “change your paradigm, change your life”… *I am Unleashing my Real Self, will you???
